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January return to School.  (published 2001)January  meant the return to school and with it anticipation of school again. Gary attended St. Peters College in Wexford town. Gary liked the challenge of school tests and seeing the results, it was just a game to him and never took it seriously. We remember him studying only one evening ever. But as some teachers said how do you ask a boy that's gets almost perfect results to study more. School for Gary brought a lot of bullying problems and indeed for a long time Gary tried  to understand the minds of boys who gave him a hard time. But thankfully he quickly realized it was they who had the problems, it was they who had insecurities in their life, it was they who needed to change and learn to accept people for how they were. Although the problem never went away he managed never to let it bother him too much, Gary would say "Keep your head high and never mind them". This hurt us a lot but it shall be Gary who they shall beg forgiveness from and luckily for them he was always kind and forgiving.

Gary loved going to school and enjoyed learning, his favourite subject was  German. He taught himself languages at home and  he once wrote about his favourite place The  French Football Stadium where he could watch soccer and get the opportunity to practice speaking French. We knew Gary was a genius and he always wanted to be a famous commentator, or linguist. He had an agenda in life and worked hard to  follow that path. It's easy for us to see how special Gary was and I can only say God got a good one when he called Gary home. "Gar" we wish you well in your new career

  Gary attended St Peter's College Wexford, Stephen C.B.S, Wexford

 

January 2002 It's now a couple of weeks into the new year of 2002. It was on my mind to write my thought for this month of January for Gary's website and the thought that troubles me is that memories of Gary slowly drift into the past. I know certainly at the beginning when Gary left that thought horrified me and somehow it insulted my memory of Gary. Almost three years later I know that for life to continue how I handle Gary's passing must change. A difficult, slow and very painful process. I feel I am on a predictable passage through life with the ending  written for me.

 I watched a program lately with Michael Palin on a journey called "Pole to Pole". It showed clearly no matter what planning and thought goes into a journey things will and do go wrong. Sometimes the end may not be reached but I know one thing for sure Gary left such an impact, it has shown the importance of our lives and how we live that life is the important thing.

I hope we can all reach our journey and life's experiences are not so difficult in the future.

 

"The Honourable Gary somers"

Our Brother

My Angel Gary

Gary goes on t.v

Links to Gary's site

Calender of thoughts

Our Guestbook

Tribute  Fr.Aodhain

Gary's love of Sport

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Tributes to Gary

Sudden Unexplained Death in EepilePsy

Words from Mom

Words from Dad

School Days

Our Memorial for Gary